Everybody Has Their Shit or Therapists are People, Too.
Psychoanalysis and Freud, though somewhat archaic, continue to have a hold on the American psyche. When I ask people what they expect the process of therapy to be like, I hear a lot of comments about they’re going to come in and vent, talk about the past, blame their parents for their current problems, and figure out why things are the way they are, as if the therapist has some...
Read MoreReady for that Valentine’s Day sex? Better read your love map
Rule number one of human sexuality is whatever you can think of someone is into it. Rule number two is there’s someone for everyone. I wrote before about being a sexual fascist and beating yourself up about the way things “should” be. Something I see quite a bit in my practice is people who don’t understand what a former professor of mine calls the sexual...
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